Mom of the Bride & Groom Shoes: What to Wear on Your Daughter's or Son's Wedding Day

The wedding bells are finally ringing for your daughter or son. You've been planning this day for months: the outfit, the jewellery, the hair. But somewhere between all of that, shoes became an afterthought.

They shouldn't be. As the mother of the bride or groom, you're on your feet for hours, from early morning rituals to the last dance of the night. The wrong shoes will make you miserable. The right ones will let you be fully present for every single moment.

This guide is for every Indian mom looking for beautiful, comfortable shoes that actually hold up through a full wedding day, no compromises required.

Why Comfort Is Non-Negotiable for the Mom of the Bride or Groom

Weddings are physically demanding. And as the mother of the bride or groom, you're not just a guest. You're greeting relatives, helping with last-minute fixes, posing for hundreds of photos, and quietly keeping everything together.

Heels that looked gorgeous at the store became unbearable by hour three. And no one deserves that, least of all you.

The good news? Comfort and elegance are no longer at odds. Wedge sneakers and platform sandals have completely changed what Indian wedding footwear can look like.

What to Look for in Mom of the Bride & Groom Shoes

Before you shop, know what actually matters:

•  A stable sole wedge is far kinder to your feet than stilettos

•  Embellishments that complement your outfit without overwhelming it

•  A heel height you can actually walk in all day

•  Craftsmanship that photographs beautifully

Indian weddings mean multiple functions: mehendi, sangeet, ceremony, and reception. Ideally, your shoes should carry you through at least two without needing a change.

The Best Anaar Styles for the Mother of the Bride or Groom

Anaar's collection is built specifically for this. Every pair is handcrafted in Mumbai with traditional Indian embroidery and designed to be worn, not just admired.

Gatsby Wedge Sneakers: The Reliable Classic

 

The Gatsby is where you start if you're new to wedge sneakers. Clean, elegant, and just the right amount of embellishment, it pairs effortlessly with sarees, anarkalis, and salwar suits. The wedge base gives you height without straining your ankles.

Best for: Ceremonies, Pheras, reception.  Pairs with: Silk sarees, heavily embroidered suits

Mahal Classic Sneakers: For the Mom Who Wants Royal

Crafted with zari, Dabka pitta work, and golden pearls, the Mahal has a grandeur that belongs at palace weddings and heritage venues. You're not stepping back on this day; the Mahal makes sure of that.

Best for: Grand ceremonies, traditional family weddings.  Pairs with: Gold or jewel-toned sarees, heavy silk lehengas

The Heirloom Classic Sneakers: Tradition, Beautifully Worn

Warm colours, gold dabka pitta, zari florals, and sequins, the Heirloom feels like it was made for the mother of the bride or groom. It honours the occasion without trying to upstage anyone.

Best for: Religious ceremonies, traditional family weddings.  Pairs with: Red, maroon, or mustard silk sarees

Phooljhadi Classic Sneakers: For the Sangeet Mom

If the sangeet is your favourite function, and honestly, it should be, the Phooljhadi was made for you. Vibrant, joyful, and full of festive energy.

Best for: Sangeet, mehendi, cocktail evening.  Pairs with: Colourful anarkalis, festive suits

Starlet Tales & Stardom Wedge Sandals: For the Sandal Lover

Not every mom wants a sneaker silhouette, and that's completely valid. The Starlet Tales and Stardom wedge sandals offer the same comfort and Indian craft in an open-toe design. Elegant, breezy, and still very much Anaar.

Best for: Outdoor functions, daytime ceremonies, warmer-weather weddings.  Pairs with: Lighter sarees, georgette dupattas, pastel suits

Me & Mine Classic Sneakers: For the Coordinated Moment

The Me & Mine is designed for mothers and the bride or groom who wants to coordinate. Same craft, complementary styles, a quiet, meaningful detail that ties your looks together beautifully.

Best for: Pre-wedding shoots, reception, sentimental moments.

How to Match Your Shoes to Your Outfit

You don't need a perfect match, you need a thoughtful one:

•  Wearing red or maroon? → The Heirloom or Mahal

•  Wearing gold or champagne? → Gatsby Wedge Sneakers

•  Wearing pastels or lighter tones? → Starlet Tales or Stardom Wedge Sandals

•  Attending the sangeet? → Phooljhadi Classic Sneakers

•  Want to coordinate with the bride or groom? → Me & Mine Classic Sneakers

FAQs

1. Are wedge sneakers appropriate for Indian weddings?

Absolutely. They've become a popular choice across wedding functions: elegant, heavily embellished, and far more comfortable than heels for long celebrations.

2. Can I wear the same shoes to multiple functions?

Yes, styles like the Gatsby and Heirloom work across ceremonies and receptions. It's about choosing a versatile colour and embellishment level.

3. What heel height do Anaar wedge sneakers have?

The wedge gives a moderate, comfortable lift enough to add elegance without the strain of a stiletto. Most moms wear them through the full day without any issues.

4. Do Anaar shoes come in larger sizes?

Yes, sizes go up to 41. Check the size chart on shopanaar.com, and reach out to the team if you need help finding the right fit.

5. How early should I order before the wedding?

Since each pair is handcrafted to order, aim to order at least 4–6 weeks in advance. Check the product page for current lead times.

Final Thoughts

You've spent months making sure everything is perfect for your loved one's big day. Your shoes deserve the same thought.

The right pair of mom of the bride & groom shoes won't just complete your look; they'll carry you through every ritual, every hug, every dance, every photo. Comfortably. Beautifully.

Browse the full collection at shopanaar.com and find the pair that's made for your moment.


Authored by the Anaar Editorial Team —

A collective of bridalwear specialists, designers, and stylists who live and breathe handcrafted glamour. With years of experience dressing modern brides, we create content rooted in real insights, artisan techniques, and customer stories.